I just read an article, written by a spiritual pastor, working in a hospice, discussing what people talk about when they are dying. She reports that family is the over riding theme...those we love, wish we had loved more, withheld love from, desired more love, loved imperfectly and failed to love with any real authenticity. This is the nature of family - yet in seeking improvement in relationships, as each generation strives to have more and do more, we may be creating a il