Are your kids tired of being on the ‘bad’ bench?....(co-) Create consequences that they care about..
Have you ever thought of creating consequences WITH (and for) your child?? This blog is about moving from the dreaded nagging and random-on the spot-penalties - towards constructive and cooperative consequences that are small enough to be carried out, without drama and too much resistance, and significant enough to change behavior over time. Penalties are generally given to make a person feel ‘wrong’ and thus add elements of emotional guilt and shame and as we don’t like th